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		<title>Nice to Haves</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Should a couple register if they don&#8217;t really need anything? I&#8217;m leaning towards no. We&#8217;re no spring chickens, so it&#8217;s not like we need a bunch of stuff to start our lives together. We have everything we need. 
I read somewhere that couples that have everything should register for &#8220;nice to have&#8221; items. Let&#8217;s see, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=589&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Should a couple register if they don&#8217;t really need anything? I&#8217;m leaning towards no. We&#8217;re no spring chickens, so it&#8217;s not like we need a bunch of stuff to start our lives together. We have everything we need. </p>
<p>I read somewhere that couples that have everything should register for &#8220;nice to have&#8221; items. Let&#8217;s see, it might be nice to have the following:</p>
<p>1. A fully funded honeymoon<br />
2. Mortgage free living for at least a year<br />
3. A butler and maid<br />
4. A driver<br />
5. Six month paid vacation</p>
<p>Where can we register for these &#8220;nice to have&#8221; items?</p>
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		<title>The Money Dance?</title>
		<link>http://accordingtotcb.com/2010/03/14/the-money-dance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you heard of &#8220;The Money Dance&#8221;? Apparantly, folks will line up to dance with the Bride and Groom and pay for the pleasure.
 Is this cool or tacky?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you heard of &#8220;The Money Dance&#8221;? Apparantly, folks will line up to dance with the Bride and Groom and pay for the pleasure.</p>
<p> Is this cool or tacky?</p>
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		<title>Save the Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:45:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let me be honest, I thought &#8220;Save the Date&#8221; items were a waste of money. Now I see them as a way to prevent a waste of money. 
Here&#8217;s the deal, with regard to the reception; we can secure the entire facility if we committ to 200 guests. On the surface this seems like a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=585&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me be honest, I thought &#8220;Save the Date&#8221; items were a waste of money. Now I see them as a way to prevent a waste of money. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the deal, with regard to the reception; we can secure the entire facility if we committ to 200 guests. On the surface this seems like a great idea. You don&#8217;t have to worry about feeling cramped. None of your guests will wander into the wrong party. All of the parking spots are for your guests. Two bars. Bigger dance floor. But let&#8217;s face it, more money.</p>
<p>One of our original problems was deciding how to skinny down the invite list so we could keep costs down. Well thanks to the best Daddy in the world, this is no longer an issue. Now I want to make sure I don&#8217;t waste my Daddy&#8217;s money, so now I&#8217;m trying to figure out how to ensure everybody shows up. </p>
<p>This is where the &#8220;Save the Date&#8221; items come in. I want to make sure people know that my big day is coming up. More importantly, I want to make sure they plan to be in attendance.</p>
<p>Did you give your guests a heads up? What are some creative ways that you&#8217;ve seen to ask people to reserve a date for an event?</p>
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		<title>The Dress</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I started the process of looking for dresses for myself and my bridesmaids. I don&#8217;t know how people do it. That place was packed&#8230;folks were stepping all over each other. Take my advice shopping for bridal party dresses on Saturday afternoon&#8230;bad idea! For my next trip I&#8217;ll be going on a week night&#8230;with perhaps [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=583&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I started the process of looking for dresses for myself and my bridesmaids. I don&#8217;t know how people do it. That place was packed&#8230;folks were stepping all over each other. Take my advice shopping for bridal party dresses on Saturday afternoon&#8230;bad idea! For my next trip I&#8217;ll be going on a week night&#8230;with perhaps one other person. Too bad it can&#8217;t be Eros, we shop very well together.</p>
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		<title>Starting to Take Shape</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 10:27:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m here in Detroit to start the whole wedding planning process. I&#8217;m with my mother, sister, and Cmaine. They&#8217;re all over me with the questions. How much do you want to spend? What kind of event do you want to have? What are your colors? Are you going to have a limo? Are you going [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=581&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m here in Detroit to start the whole wedding planning process. I&#8217;m with my mother, sister, and Cmaine. They&#8217;re all over me with the questions. How much do you want to spend? What kind of event do you want to have? What are your colors? Are you going to have a limo? Are you going to allow kids at the reception? I have a splitting headache&#8230;Calgon&#8230;take me away.</p>
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