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		<title>Flowers and Table Linens</title>
		<link>http://accordingtotcb.com/2010/07/10/flowers-and-table-linens/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 01:33:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;these are my two biggest concerns right now. So much so that thinking about them often brings me to tears. I know that sounds ridiculous, but that&#8217;s where I am with the wedding planning. Let me first say that i don&#8217;t have a creative bone in my body, after all I&#8217;m an Engineer. Numbers are [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=643&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;these are my two biggest concerns right now. So much so that thinking about them often brings me to tears. I know that sounds ridiculous, but that&#8217;s where I am with the wedding planning. Let me first say that i don&#8217;t have a creative bone in my body, after all I&#8217;m an Engineer. Numbers are my thing, not flowers and table linens. I&#8217;m feeling so overwhelmed right not. I keep seeing pictures of beautiful receptions and all I can think about is did I make the right choices. I&#8217;m starting to think that I did not. So now I&#8217;m on a mad dash to come up with a new look for the reception. </p>
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		<title>A dolla short and a day late</title>
		<link>http://accordingtotcb.com/2010/06/22/a-dolla-short-and-a-day-late/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 05:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why is it that when you&#8217;ve moved on folks are always trying to pull you back? NEWSFLASH &#8211; I&#8217;m getting married&#8230;STOP CALLING ME! I haven&#8217;t answered a call from you in over six months. MOVE ON! I don&#8217;t care if you always thought I&#8217;d be the woman that you&#8217;d marry. That ship has sailed and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=640&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it that when you&#8217;ve moved on folks are always trying to pull you back? </p>
<p>NEWSFLASH &#8211; I&#8217;m getting married&#8230;STOP CALLING ME! I haven&#8217;t answered a call from you in over six months. MOVE ON!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t care if you always thought I&#8217;d be the woman that you&#8217;d marry. That ship has sailed and you&#8217;ve been left at the dock.</p>
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		<title>9-11</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 05:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The big day is quickly approaching, in 81 days I&#8217;ll be married. That seems kind of funny&#8230;I&#8217;ll be married in 81 days. When I tell you that I would have never thunk it, I&#8217;m serious. First of all, growing up I always said that I would never marry. I&#8217;m not really sure why I felt [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=637&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The big day is quickly approaching, in 81 days I&#8217;ll be married. That seems kind of funny&#8230;I&#8217;ll be married in 81 days. When I tell you that I would have never thunk it, I&#8217;m serious. First of all, growing up I always said that I would never marry. I&#8217;m not really sure why I felt that way, particularly because I grew up in a home with both my parents. My parents did and still continue to have a great marriage&#8230;so I don&#8217;t know where I got it in my head that I would not marry. But alas those where the thoughts of a child. However, as I got older, I continued to think that I would not get married; only this time it had more to do with the quality of men that I met. This is not to say that I have only dated losers, because that is not true. I&#8217;ve dated some interesting folks, they&#8217;ve just not been right for me.</p>
<p>Thankfully in 81 days I&#8217;ll be wed to the man that God had intended for me all along.</p>
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		<title>Couldn&#8217;t Do It</title>
		<link>http://accordingtotcb.com/2010/05/15/couldnt-do-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 04:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I broke down and got my hair relaxed today. I don&#8217;t know what I was thinking. The natural hair thing is more than a notion. Going to the gym was becoming a pain. The after swell was too much. I couldn&#8217;t even get a comb through my hair&#8230;kinky, kinky, kinky! Not only did I get [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=634&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I broke down and got my hair relaxed today. I don&#8217;t know what I was thinking. The natural hair thing is more than a notion. Going to the gym was becoming a pain. The after swell was too much. I couldn&#8217;t even get a comb through my hair&#8230;kinky, kinky, kinky!</p>
<p>Not only did I get a relaxer, I went to a new person. Can you believe it?  You know black folks don&#8217;t do a lot of chair hopping. She even cut my hair. I haven&#8217;t let anyone cut my hair except Shu in years. I&#8217;m totally pleased with Korrey and to top it all off, she&#8217;s located in Middleburg Heights (15 minutes away) and not all the way on the east side. It&#8217;s hard to find a black stylist in the burbs. I think I&#8217;ll keep her.</p>
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		<title>Joy</title>
		<link>http://accordingtotcb.com/2010/05/13/joy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 11:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>only1tcb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People mean well, but some times their comments sting and are very hurtful. What do you do when someone&#8217;s comments steal your joy? Filed under: Random Thoughts Tagged: happiness, Random Thoughts<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=accordingtotcb.com&blog=8251172&post=632&subd=35firstdates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People mean well, but some times their comments sting and are very hurtful.</p>
<p>What do you do when someone&#8217;s comments steal your joy?</p>
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