Comments on: more random thoughts http://accordingtotcb.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/ One woman's journey through the dating maze and her random thoughts along the way. Mon, 19 Jul 2010 12:06:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Blondie http://accordingtotcb.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-236 Blondie Sun, 01 Nov 2009 18:55:55 +0000 http://35firstdates.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-236 haha, no way. A movie called "Sorority Row" sucked?! haha, no way. A movie called “Sorority Row” sucked?!

]]> By: only1tcb http://accordingtotcb.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-235 only1tcb Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:20:48 +0000 http://35firstdates.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-235 Sundjata - I guess you're right I never really did explain how Eros was able to get me to stop the experiment. I suppose it was really a combination of things. First and foremost, Eros and I get along really well. We have a great time together, we laugh, we talk, we're silly with each other...we just get along. Now I know this is all new and at some point the new car smell is going to fade away, but I think we'll be fine. We've talked about our styles of disagreement, but the true test will come when we have our first big disagreement. I'm not worried. Second, I think we're just both ready for something more and we both realize that no one person or situation is prefect. We each have our own unique strengths that we bring to the table. And that's okay, not everyone is like me and the world really is better off for it, too many only1tcbs would not be a good thing. Third, I've realized a lot of things just don't matter. Sundjata – I guess you’re right I never really did explain how Eros was able to get me to stop the experiment. I suppose it was really a combination of things.

First and foremost, Eros and I get along really well. We have a great time together, we laugh, we talk, we’re silly with each other…we just get along. Now I know this is all new and at some point the new car smell is going to fade away, but I think we’ll be fine. We’ve talked about our styles of disagreement, but the true test will come when we have our first big disagreement. I’m not worried.

Second, I think we’re just both ready for something more and we both realize that no one person or situation is prefect. We each have our own unique strengths that we bring to the table. And that’s okay, not everyone is like me and the world really is better off for it, too many only1tcbs would not be a good thing.

Third, I’ve realized a lot of things just don’t matter.

]]> By: Sundjata http://accordingtotcb.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-234 Sundjata Sat, 31 Oct 2009 15:08:16 +0000 http://35firstdates.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/more-random-thoughts/#comment-234 Its funny how things change. Before #4 became Eros, he seemed like anything but what you wanted, yet there you are in a movie that's guaranteed to suck, but you're happy because you're with him. Clearly, something changed, but you didn't really explain that to us. I wonder how often it happens that women write off a brotha too early and for the wrong reasons? I've heard of women denying men for some ridiculous reasons. Then again, I've heard of women accepting men for equally nonsensical reasons. I hope you keep blogging. Yours is one of the few that I read regularly. Its funny how things change. Before #4 became Eros, he seemed like anything but what you wanted, yet there you are in a movie that’s guaranteed to suck, but you’re happy because you’re with him. Clearly, something changed, but you didn’t really explain that to us.

I wonder how often it happens that women write off a brotha too early and for the wrong reasons? I’ve heard of women denying men for some ridiculous reasons. Then again, I’ve heard of women accepting men for equally nonsensical reasons.

I hope you keep blogging. Yours is one of the few that I read regularly.

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