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What have I done!?!

Posted by: only1tcb on: October 16, 2009

It’s been a few months since I’ve been doing this blog thing and I’m really having a ball. Perhaps more than posting to my own blog I’ve really come to enjoy reading other people’s blog. People are just so interesting to me and I like looking into other people’s lives…I guess I’m nosy. I’ve really been enjoying Single Black Male, those brothas are funny as heck. They also pose some very interesting questions / topics regarding relationships. Although, I get the feeling that I’m older than the Single Black Males and most of their followers, I still enjoy their site. You should check it out.

Anyway, one of the topics discussed on their blog was whether or not to tell your significant other about your blog, particularly if you make mention of your SO. I think it’s perfectly okay to tell your SO about your blog…I think. If you read their post, I had agreed that it was okay, now I’m not so sure.

I told Eros about the my blog and I even let him read it…with the caveat that what I posted was what I thought and felt on the day of the post and those thoughts and feelings may not apply anymore. He read most of the posts and he seemed cool with what I had posted but now I’m feeling kind of exposed. There were some things in my posts that he probably knew but things that I had not specifically told him…so now he knows my secrets. Oh boy!

If you blog about your life including your SO, what do they think of the blog? Any negative reactions?

4 Responses to "What have I done!?!"

I am a old, married, white guy and your right, that blog is funny. Thanks for the tip. I love to read other blogs as much as I like writing mine.

I blog about marriage and how men can better love their wives. I hope you will check it out too.

http://whatsheneedsfromyou.wordpress.com

Thanks

I usually don’t blog about my life…

I blog specifically about my life, and I change names and alter stories just enough to where the right folk are in the know and the wrong one’s are thrown off the chain.

Now, I would not have suggested you allow Number 4 or Eros to read your blog. I know what I would be thinking if I were him. What do you think you’d be thinking if it were the other way around? Things that make you say hmm….

Hmmm. I’m sure as time goes on, I would be ok with my S.O. knowing about my blog. If I WAS in a committed relationship with someone, I would be posting about different things anyway.

I think it’s bad to keep those things from people when you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, but at first I would probably keep it quiet

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